“Why you gotta be this way?”

I actually just said this to myself recently after sipping my latte and spilling on myself while driving. (eye roll)

It’s the great mystery of life, isn’t it? Why are we the way we are?

It causes frustration in marriage & families, annoyance in our workplaces and, heck, it even causes rage on the road!

Turns out, understanding our behavior, and WHY we do the things we do, results in a lot more patience and insight, which changes everything.

Having 20 years of experience coaching and counseling, I use the Enneagram as a map for discovery because I have found it to be shockingly clear and accurate in revealing WHY we think, feel and behave the way we do.

My one-on-one and group coaching sessions give you all the “ah-ha!” moments of clarity you desire to enhance your family life, work, friendships, and help you get unstuck in areas where it’s needed.

But, don't just take my word for it! Scroll down to see what others are saying about my coaching.

private & group coaching

Make a life-changing investment in your personal growth by participating in one of my coaching programs! Options for private or group coaching available, online or in-person.

I came to enneagram coaching with Kristi at a very difficult time in my life. I was experiencing brokenness in relationships and confusion in a few major areas, and needed help sifting through the mess. My coaching sessions with Kristi were a bright-spot in a dark time because of her compassion and understanding presence. But, even more powerful, was her commitment to bring truth and clarity to my situation. Kristi has this ability to help you clearly recognize where you may be self-destructing and why, while also making you feel like you’ve received a warm hug.

Kristi is a compassionate coach with loads of wisdom and the ability to hear the meaning underneath the words you speak. She can decipher what’s happening underneath the surface and has a natural gift to gently help others unearth their own deep desires and motives.

Coaching with Kristi has been a gift to myself, my family, and my friends. I am more compassionate and understanding with myself and as a wife, mother, and friend because of the insights I’ve gained with her.

~Ashley Baldwin, Enneagram 1

Her wisdom and insight is truly from above, and I'm so thankful to be on this journey with her by my side. Kristi has an unbelievable gift, is so easy to open up to, and moves with the Spirit as we converse, genuinely leading the sessions with grace and sincerity. As I continue to read the books she recommended, I grow in truth and knowledge, noticing improvement in my relationships, not only others but with myself.  If you or someone you love is looking to grow in unimaginable ways, desire to see yourself and the world around you through a better lens, I highly recommend allowing Kristi to bring you along this course.

-Laura McLellan, Enneagram 9

Words alone cannot describe the positive impact Kristi's Enneagram coaching has had on my marriage, my relationship with my children & grandchildren, my team of YL oilers, and most of all MYSELF! Self-Discovery is absolutely beautiful, heart-filling, and price-less!! Learning who I really am and why I say and do the things I do has brought my soul peace and discernment. Without a doubt, I have so much more to learn about other Enneagram numbers so I will continue my coaching with her as the value she has brought to my life through this training is unimaginable!

~Robyn Murrah, Type 1